Archive for ‘Drama Drama Drama’

February 21, 2011

Oh for the Love…

I have so much shit going on lately that I don’t even know where to begin. I need to write to get it all out, but at the same time, I don’t want to write it all out because I don’t want people to think I’m retarded by being bothered.

I really want to finish the Twilight books, that way I can mark them off and forget all about them. I didn’t want to read them in the first place. I want to get away from supernatural books. I might even adjust my list to take off re-reading the first 9 Sookie Stackhouse (True Blood) books by Charlaine Harris. Of course I want to reread the 10th book, and the new one that’s coming out in May, but after that, I think I want to move on.

I have really enjoyed working, and I love the fact that I am earning money! I can start working on my list of things I want to accomplish this year, and pay off my debt. That makes me happy! It’s going to take a while to do it, but it will get done. I was talking to my boyfriend last night, and this summer, depending on how my hours pan out at my job now, if i stay at 20 hours a week I mean, I will get a second part time job, and start putting all of my income from my second job toward bills, or maybe I will save it up so that I can keep it for a rainy day. I dunno. I just need to get it under control. I have even considered going to the bank once I get my first pay check, and seeing if I couldn’t get a loan to pay for the three major cards. I hate my life when I think about the debt and the fact that I left everything to my ex husband. I should have made him pay off my credit cards and left everything else to him. Ugh!

February 2, 2011

No Kids? = Chopped Liver

Does it seem petty of me that I feel like the only friends I have made here treat me differently because I don’t have a kid? It does sound petty? Well, good, because I know it’s petty, but it still makes me feel like chopped liver.

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February 2, 2011

Life Without a Phone: Day 1

So, remember the fact that I was married before? Yeah, we had just signed a new Verizon contract a few months before, and while we were dividing the assets of our marriage, the ex agreed to pay for my phone line until the end of the contract.¬†Well, yesterday my phone was shut off. My ex is an asshole and doesn’t realize I can take his dumb ass to court for him having disconnected my phone line.

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December 12, 2010

Time Bomb – Part 5

Well, since I stopped writing this series in October, when the bestie/bitch left, I will conclude it with this information. She packed up her car, left her key on the table and I have not heard form her since. Good riddance, I hope your ex gets custody of your son, and leaves you with nothing.

Oh, and I’m taking your mom to court for the items she stole from me.

October 21, 2010

Time Bomb – Part 4

So she gets here weekend of July 4th, well my boyfriend, and his friend were camping and didn’t see the bestie until we went to a BBQ at boyfriend’s friend’s house. (Also the man bestie has been in love with since she was 16, we’ll call him loverboy… awkward….) So the next weekend, the friend we went camping with comes over and we’re all drinking, and bestie starts flirting with with him, in front of her boyfriend… So she ends up kissing the friend, her boyfriend didn’t see it, but had enough of what he had seen, and shoves bestie and calls her a bitch and other stuff.

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October 20, 2010

Time Bomb – Part 3

Planning to move 900 miles is a tough task, even for one person. Planning to move 900 miles and have to consider another person and their child is a disaster waiting to happen.

Once I told my family I was moving, I had just a few weeks to get rid of everything that wouldn’t fit in my truck. I did so successfully, with the exception of entrusting the best friend’s mom with my desktop PC and monitor, and several hundreds of dollars in Mary Kay product. My truck was so full that I could only fit in my seat, and nothing else could be crammed anywhere. I could have fit more, I guess, but silly me, since I couldn’t see out my rear-view mirror, I ought to at least be able to see out of both of my side mirrors. Thus, leaving a good portion of my passenger seat ’empty”. If I were reckless, I would have filled it to the top.

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October 15, 2010

Time Bomb – Part 2

The week I spent in Reno was difficult for me. I just left my husband, I’d been in love with this other man for the whole time I was with my husband. The only reason I started dating my husband was because I finally realized the ex was never coming back. Now, here I was, sitting with him on his balcony, watching the snow come down, and feeling my heart rest for the first time in six years.

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October 12, 2010

Time Bomb – Part 1

So, a little recap of my 2010…

In March I realized that I was married to a wonderful man, but that marriage¬†wasn’t right for either of us. He deserves someone who can’t live without him, and knows with her whole heart she is madly in love with him. I, unfortunately, was neither of those things. I asked for a divorce. He kept the house, my cat, all the furniture, and the list goes on. He kept ‘my’ car, we sold his car, bought and used that money to buy me an SUV. Our divorce was final August 2nd.

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